Life Lessons from Samantha Jones: I

It's been a little bit of a "while", so i figure i will grace you with my o so fabulous presence lol. i've been thinking a lot lately about life and love...of course every girl thinks about love every so often right? right. However, there is a twist...love and SEX. yes! that 3 letter word. To do or not to do, that is the question!!! Sex and the City is the birthplace of one of the most intriguing characters in television history (and I'm not talking about Carrie Bradshaw), Samantha Jones is one of the most powerful women I have ever seen on television. She obtains this power through her potently sweet sexuality. I've always questioned her balance of sex and self? What sustains her? How can a woman feel so sexually free in a society that damns her free reign over her own vagina? Girls love sex just as much as guys do, but why is it in this world that a woman is condemned for pursuing her desire of limitless pleasure and a man is left to do as he pleases? In Samantha's case she entertained this lustful desire with 42 men over the course of the 6 season run. Let's not forget all the men she probably had in college...this woman "got around", but there was something within her that made her classy and sophisticated without being labeled a ho (at least not in my mind). A man could aproach Samantha in a bar knowing, her background and still wanted to wife her (was that just because it was tv OR was it because they wanted great sex for an eternity lol). What is this quality that set Samantha Jones apart from Jill Schmoe who has 22 bodies? Is it her money, her prestige, her independence, flawless style, large breasts? Probably yes, HOWEVER she exudes gamma rays of confidence and swagger (im a fan of that word, guilty! lol). Its all about how you carry yourself ladies. If you don't let it phase you, then it won't phase a guy, its how you maintain control over your own excursions. Trust me when I say confidence can carry you miles and miles down the road of lust and you may even be able to make a right turn onto the pathway of love. So ladies I encourage you to live life, love both in and out your beds...now im not saying that you should go fuck the next brotha you see on impulse, but I am saying do not let society effect your decisions to lay in a bed, or to stay out of one, to each his own, dig? Keep your confidence up and your swagger right and you should be good to go. Above all respect, guard, and take care of your temple in your own special way, again to each his own, dig? Comfort within sexuality is one of the key elements in being a human and ladies should not have to neglect that part of themselves based on a falsely produced double standard. so love life and let life live, be free in your own skin.

“I will wear whatever and blow whomever I want as long as I can breathe and kneel.”- Samantha Jones

These Are Sick!

Louboutin for Rodarte...sick sick sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-Doe Chee$e

Today's Hotness

Rihanna- Love her shades

Victoria Beckham- Her whole look is hot

Trey Songz- Do I need to even say anything...this is for you Kimmie E lol

Im loving Christina Milian's shoes


Zoe Kravitz

obama dated my mama

my president smoked tobacco...and he was sexy as hell

credit to theagytators

see more at obama: the college years

FEED ME FEED ME!

wats good?
i might spend my new years in brooklyn..yea!
so hows errybody doin? lol
don't you just love home. in between chauffering my grandmother to the mall and going on random double dates with my mom and her fiancee, im getting some much needed "me" time. Me and music have been going steady for a hot minute or should I say music and I...However Ive been having some serious satisfaction issues. I listen to the radio, music blows me (in a bad way). I flip between 95.5, 93.9 and my native 92Q for a fix and I can't get it unless chopped n screwed is on or miss independednt remix is playing and those are party anthems. AHHHHH. my ipod has everything from raekwon to sarah vaughan and i still can't find something to give me that musical orgasm! WTF. Why is this happening to me? Maybe I need to read a book or something or go on a walk, or write a poem, or buy some clothes...man FEED ME! give me some links or somethin..im bout to listen to some Drake (remember him??), cuz i just read this post on the vagabond speaks. FEED ME BEATS...or songs actually FEED ME SONGS...ahhhhhh

R.I.P. Eartha Kitt

Over the Holidays Earth Kitt died of colon cancer at the age of 81. She was known cat like features and signature purr. Miss Kitt was also known for being the original Catwoman and singer of "Santa Baby." She also starred in Harriet the Spy and Boomerang. She was a legend and will truly be missed. R.I.P EARTHA KITT.

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-Doe Chee$e

Get Hype.....

Yo Kim! How you gona try and fire me (on the low)...I know I am the dead beat dad and all but its the holidays so Ima show my face around these parts and support my child, Queenie for once.

The holiday is wack, Christmas is dead to me lol. I am 20 and the effects off Christmas have worn off. I dont buy anyone presents, I hate Christmas music, and I have a 9 to 5 for the holiday break ( I got bills to pay, why Ima spend my money on present...geez). It doesnt even feel like Christmas man! But Im tryna skip Christmas and get to New Years. Yea I am an alchi on the low and New Years is the time to get it poppin, literally lol. New Years has become a new tradition for me and the celebration has essentially replaced Christmas for me. I mean dont get me wrong, Jesus is the reason for the season but ummmm people so dont celebrate X-mas for him, its all about the presents, the last minute shopping, Fights in the mall parking lot over a space and so on and so on. New Years is the grown person's X-mas. Pop bottles, dance all night, pop more bottles, scream happy new year, boo love for a few, and then pass out. Thats my kinda celebration. So put on ya lil dress, ya pumps, gets your hair did, and reign in the new year right. In the infamous words of Rick James...ITS A CELEBRATION BITCHES.....

-Doe Chee$e

u wanna kno what really grinds my gears?

so im sittin here watchin the aristocats, a disney classic on my little ass television set. whoever said tv kills brain cells was right, however i appreciate the deadness of a portion of my brain, it allows me to appreciate the subtleties of children's entertainment. sigh. i know yal remember all of those movies we used to watch, the lion king, lady and the tramp, the sword and the stone (or maybe that one was just me), Aladdin, the jungle book, snow white and the seven dwarfs, the home alones, cinderella (and the brandy version too), mulan, toy story, a bugs life, and the list goes on and on and on and on. being a child with a vcr was so much easier than being a child with no tv. i mean what did everyone do when it was too cold to go outside or too late? you watched tv. it really is great when you think about it. i did read as a child, but tv was like an outlet to your dreams. you could see the places you wanted to travel too, watch the fabulous life of all those mc's out there, you could actually see how rich you planned to get how many hoes money could by, the new mercedes benz, you could see all the shit you wanted to have in your life. some of the things you will later obtain or could never obtain...man tv is a big buzz kill these days. all i see is reality, well unreality. a huge array of shows dedicated to the vision of nothingness. im tellin yal jesus has to be coming back any day now with this dumb reality bs thats going around. its like iraq, george bush, and reality tv...ALL BUZZ KILLS!!! bring me back to the days where the only tv i saw was not based in any reality, when tv was based on the writers' imagination. i remember when tv could make me love life and hate it all at the same time because drama lived there (to a certain extent) thats why i watch tcm, so i can see that love can not be created commercially and that there was actually a time where there was a complete and beautiful view of love that was not tarnished by the fools they bring on these dumb ass vh1 shows. all in all tv in 2008 was just a reminder of how fucked up the world is. what happened to all those shows and movies we all know and love? what happened? :(

my president is: getting hit in the head with a size 10

W got hit in the head with two shoes...hahahahahaha
how good is that?
i will give him his props and say that he can duck just about anything, shoes, bombs, weapons of mass destruction, al queda(sp)...all that shit.
the first mistake W made, was showing up unannounced. you can't just show up in a foreign country unannounced and don't expect to get something thrown at you. duh
if obama gets shoes thrown at him, i might be a little mad and call it racist, but this, this right here is what i call genius