Sunday, January 10, 2010

To wife or not to wife? That is the question

Why me? Why am I a single lady? All we really want is for someone to
want to put a ring on it, not to say we will take the ring, but we want
a ring offering from a guy who we find intriguing. Take my home for
example we have living with us one wifed and two singles (including
myself). It seems as though the single girls stick together through
their singleness, bitching about the "boys they talk to or think they
talk to" while wifey remains content in the confines of her room,
smiling to the gloriousness of wifed life and its many perks. I can
honestly say that the singleness within us is jealous, happy for our
friend, but jealous at the same time, which I believe is understandable
considering that we've been living in "woo world" for 3 or 4 years lol
(shake my head). But what is the determining factor? Why is it that some
girls are always wifed, some girls stay single (me), and some girls just
so happen to find that special one (wifed roomie)? Patience maybe? Or is
it that me and my single friend love assholes?Or is it us? I for one
don't want to stick around and wait for the answer because it's most
like going to be a load of stinking cow dung. I suggest you revel in
your singleness and look for the perks within that. Dwelling on the fact
that she gets to go eat lobster for free and celebrate Valentines Day
will make you all the more bitter. Rejoice in the fact that you can do
whatever you want to without the restrictions of a title! Take yourself
out, by yourself a drink, go out and dance! Be a human being for christ
sake because once you get that desired relationship there will be more
disappointment, and potential heart break. Your singleness could be your
saving grace and it can offer you much peace. Think of it like this,
every girl in a relationship has once been a single girl. One day you'll
be her and one day she'll be you.

So love yourself ladies. You don't need a man to do that.

Peace & Blessings


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